we are where we are

== English == === Phrase === we are where we are (idiomatic) acknowledging the shortcomings of the present situation, while focusing on dealing with it rather than either dwelling on the causes or regretting what might have been Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see we,‎ are,‎ where,‎ we,‎ are. === See also === what's done is done; it is what it is; draw a line under; move on; deal with it