thương cho roi cho vọt, ghét cho ngọt cho bùi

== Vietnamese == === Pronunciation === (Hà Nội) IPA(key): [tʰɨəŋ˧˧ t͡ɕɔ˧˧ zɔj˧˧ t͡ɕɔ˧˧ vɔt̚˧˨ʔ ɣɛt̚˧˦ t͡ɕɔ˧˧ ŋɔt̚˧˨ʔ t͡ɕɔ˧˧ ʔɓuj˨˩] (Huế) IPA(key): [tʰɨəŋ˧˧ t͡ɕɔ˧˧ ʐɔj˧˧ t͡ɕɔ˧˧ vɔk̚˨˩ʔ ɣɛt̚˦˧˥ t͡ɕɔ˧˧ ŋɔk̚˨˩ʔ t͡ɕɔ˧˧ ʔɓuj˦˩] (Saigon) IPA(key): [tʰɨəŋ˧˧ cɔ˧˧ ɹɔj˧˧ cɔ˧˧ vɔk̚˨˩˨ ɣɛk̚˦˥ cɔ˧˧ ŋɔk̚˨˩˨ cɔ˧˧ ʔɓuj˨˩] ~ [tʰɨəŋ˧˧ cɔ˧˧ ɹɔj˧˧ cɔ˧˧ jɔk̚˨˩˨ ɣɛk̚˦˥ cɔ˧˧ ŋɔk̚˨˩˨ cɔ˧˧ ʔɓuj˨˩] Phonetic spelling: thương cho roi cho vọt ghét cho ngọt cho bùi === Phrase === thương cho roi cho vọt, ghét cho ngọt cho bùi (literal) love means whipping, hate means giving sweetness and gentleness (figurative) love means corporal punishment, hate means lenient treatment === See also === roi vọt