bi now, gay later

== English == === Etymology === A pun on the marketing phrase "buy now, pay later". === Proverb === bi now, gay later (humorous, offensive) A slogan suggesting that bisexual people tend to become exclusively homosexual later in life. 2021, Estella Ferraro, Wilful Blindness: On the Relationship of Identity, Agency and Personal, Springer Nature (→ISBN), page 162, quoting a man named John: "And I did that usual sort of bi now gay later thing, so I was like I'm bisexual, I'm bisexual, I like women as well. Just to make it more acceptable." For more quotations using this term, see Citations:bi now, gay later. === See also === BUG lesbian until graduation hasbian, wasbian